Maybe you would've been killed on that trip...?
I'm just saying that, everything can be an opportunity or it can lead to a disaster because we have no way of knowing how something might turn out. So it is really pointless to have regrets and misguided to feel you have to take every opportunity.
....and that in a nutshell sums up your approach to love it would seem........I wonder if you have had that approach to music?
I have accepted work that potentially could have been disastrous but worked out fine , on all sorts of levels...and the same goes for relationships. If you extend your logic then you may as well go for ALLl relationships as the musical/emotional benefits MIGHT be huge. Dave
My head hurts!